Notes for the Next Chapter: Why Community Matters in Our Encore Era

When my mom was diagnosed with cancer, I learned the true value of community. Friends became like sisters—dropping off meals, sending scriptures and quotes to lift my spirits, even offering to send a housekeeper so I could spend more time with her. That season taught me something I’ll never forget: while we can go it alone, we aren’t meant to.

Sometimes, community shows up in surprising places. For me, it was a Facebook group called Black Women Who Love Football. Now, I’d only call myself a semi-fan—but these women made the game feel alive. The trash talk was legendary (no one does it like a Black woman!), and the passion was infectious. Beyond the laughter, it was the way they rallied for each other—sharing updates about their sons in high school, college, and even the pros—that reminded me how connection transforms us.

That’s why I created The Encore Era. Because when I looked for spaces designed for women over 50, I kept finding two extremes: glossy guides for younger women or dated advice on how to “do” 50. Neither reflected the innovative women I know—women starting businesses, learning new skills, discovering passions, even falling in love for the first time.

Because women over 50 aren’t just living quietly on the sidelines — we’re vibrant, influential, and powerful. With more than 58 million of us in the U.S., driving $15 trillion in spending, it’s time we had spaces where we’re not just included but celebrated.

Why Community Matters Now

In our 50s, life is full of transitions—career shifts, grown children, aging parents. It can be isolating. Community reminds us:

• We don’t have to carry it all alone.

• We’re stronger when we’re seen and supported.

• Shared spaces—whether built around sports, beauty, or storytelling—can be lifelines.

  
  

Finding Your Own Tribe

If you’re searching for community, start here:

• Shared passions: From book clubs to travel groups to online communities like my football sisters, hobbies create natural bonds.

• Aspirational examples: Follow influencers, beauty icons, and entrepreneurs over 50 who reflect your vision for this stage.

• Create your circle: Start a dinner club, a workshop, or even a group chat. Sometimes, the tribe you’re seeking is waiting for you to gather them.

Community is more than connection—it’s resilience, joy, and belonging. In this next chapter, we don’t just need community.

We deserve it.

Below is a recent picture of me and my beautiful sorority sisters of Alpha Kappa Alpha Incorporated - a community that I truly cherish.  What communities have lifted you up or brought you joy?